tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341467102466935267.post3609753990124920646..comments2023-12-10T10:35:04.165-05:00Comments on Downward TrEnz: How much has changed in 25 years?Enzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14960677775063373213noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341467102466935267.post-464189461536212482012-08-09T04:37:46.003-04:002012-08-09T04:37:46.003-04:00I was on my own with 4 young children after I left...I was on my own with 4 young children after I left my first husgand, and the first time I went 'out' with a friend, I met my Stew and we have now been married for 25 years!<br />All I can say is don't go LOOKING for a man, just be yourself, and he will find you! <br />OR... do what masses of people do now days (it's accepted now) and go on the internet dating sites and meet people that way... then you can filter out any that sound like creeps! <br />I totally get how lonely it can be on your own. Good luck Chick.Chris Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03599144462630400401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341467102466935267.post-32332945620396199842012-08-08T18:58:46.603-04:002012-08-08T18:58:46.603-04:00Oh gosh, I don't feel like I've anything u...Oh gosh, I don't feel like I've anything useful to say because I've hardly dated in the past few years, let alone been married. <br /><br />I totally understand the wanting to "have" someone feeling and I agree with the person above who said it's because you're feeling better about yourself. I find myself wondering more and more about having someone to feel close to, or eat out with or get dressed up for, yet it feels kind of embarrassing to admit that. <br /><br />You're such a lovely person, it totally shines through in your posts and I hope you meet someone just as nice soon. xSusiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13566662837743195697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341467102466935267.post-3265125692316715362012-08-08T06:27:55.080-04:002012-08-08T06:27:55.080-04:00Keep being your authentic self and then just keep ...Keep being your authentic self and then just keep socially active with many groups of people. If the right guy is out there, he will like you just as you are. Also, many things I have read say to expand out more miles from your home with your activities so that you have a better chance of meeting someone that you don't already know. That's the only thing I've ever read that makes logical sense. <br /><br />:-) MarionAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09499442282999349686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341467102466935267.post-74663822606686185222012-08-07T21:22:53.906-04:002012-08-07T21:22:53.906-04:00I'm eternally single, met the last 2 boyfriend...I'm eternally single, met the last 2 boyfriends online. Then decided I needed to focus on learning to love myself. Haven't put myself out there yet but I'm thinking about it.Cowgirl Warriorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02653622599297099844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341467102466935267.post-83257117617672783142012-08-07T18:35:47.658-04:002012-08-07T18:35:47.658-04:00Here's hoping just the right person comes alon...Here's hoping just the right person comes along.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341467102466935267.post-33916394133828136592012-08-07T16:46:08.936-04:002012-08-07T16:46:08.936-04:00I met my boyfriend online.. it lets you get to kno...I met my boyfriend online.. it lets you get to know each other a little before meeting and by then you kind of have an idea what the other person is all about. You will find someone if you are open to it!Need to Get ME Backhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17073933926054788022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341467102466935267.post-13656944191871058332012-08-07T12:54:29.348-04:002012-08-07T12:54:29.348-04:00I met my husband in church. Who knew hot romance c...I met my husband in church. Who knew hot romance could begin at church? I hope you find just the right person.Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12123414139489993162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341467102466935267.post-37478302150061325762012-08-07T10:52:30.285-04:002012-08-07T10:52:30.285-04:00I am in a similar boat, so I completely understand...I am in a similar boat, so I completely understand. I have never been married, but I have spent my entire adult life past college taking care of my elderly parents. Mom passed away last fall, but I still take care of Dad. Needless to say, I didn't have time to date or go out before. Now that I hit the big 3-0, I am really feeling that urge to date and marry. I want children, and if I don't make changes the opportunity will pass me by. If I lived closer, we could totally hit the town together. LOL! Seriously though, I am trying online dating. I haven't had much luck so far though.Mary Ellen Quigleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02679719500257202397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341467102466935267.post-28309040406120504312012-08-06T21:48:51.069-04:002012-08-06T21:48:51.069-04:00Hey, I'm an INFJ too! :)
This is such a nice...Hey, I'm an INFJ too! :) <br /><br />This is such a nice post. Even though I'm not in the same situation, I get what you mean. I agree with everything Leslie said above. I think this is the natural start of 'getting back out there.' I think you're doing everything else -- valuing yourself and pursuing your interests and getting to know what you want and need in your life. You may or may not find that's enough to draw someone into life -- but if not, there are lots of things you can do to set the ball in motion, as it were. Personally, I'm a big fan of online dating -- it's where I met Shaun, and it's certainly not limited to just one age group anymore. Plus, it's great for us introverts. :) <br /><br />(PS: I'm the QUEEN of writing online dating profiles, so if you do decide to go this route I'd be happy to help. I used to be president of an online dating club called Girls And Guys Meeting Electronically (GAG ME for short!). Okay, I started the club, but still! I set my friend Sarah up with her now husband, so I feel I've got a real knack here. :D)Andyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03153590782817733949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341467102466935267.post-35532469039040847612012-08-06T18:35:19.080-04:002012-08-06T18:35:19.080-04:00What a thoughtful and honest post. What comes to ...What a thoughtful and honest post. What comes to me is that you're feeling better about yourself and opening to new experiences and relationships. Just the shift of recognizing that it would be nice to have a partner again is a wonderful and natural beginning. Just keep being yourself and pursuing your interests - your openness and interest will come shining through. Keep us posted! ;)Lesliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12401609334253676307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341467102466935267.post-48575388045578477722012-08-06T18:15:45.747-04:002012-08-06T18:15:45.747-04:00I met the big loves of my life at work, in a grad ...I met the big loves of my life at work, in a grad school class, online and at the gym.Normahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11949876371473945014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341467102466935267.post-31081491952244694202012-08-06T18:05:16.069-04:002012-08-06T18:05:16.069-04:00Think sometimes its easier to meet someone when we...Think sometimes its easier to meet someone when we are not trying.<br /><br />I lost my perfect partner 3 years ago with cancer didn't do anything for over a year and I've dated 3 people since two of which I met on singles holidays (do you like travel), and the other online.<br />Of the 3 "L" whom I'm good friends with just lives too far away so we just keep it as a friends thing, we've been away 2 or 3 times though and could again i suppose, especially while both single.<br /> "P" another I met on holiday I dated for nearly a year but we sort of grew apart, just at different stages of our lives, still friends though and chat occsionally. Personally didn't want to split but it just didn't work out and I'm not one to look over my shoulder.<br />More recently I dated "M" who I met online and we dated for nearly 3 months but the magic wasn't there.<br />Have had a couple of other online one off dates but not led anywhere.<br />I'm quite comfortable been single as I love my sport and travel but also happy to be in a relationship with the right person.<br />Away on another singles hol this month so never know may meet someone, may not who knows, they arn't dating agencys but with all them singles past history tells me its always a possibility.Mick & Cathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00825583971423243012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7341467102466935267.post-75931427053799077362012-08-06T17:24:33.869-04:002012-08-06T17:24:33.869-04:00Praying God sends that someone into your life.Praying God sends that someone into your life.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18318732929964135982noreply@blogger.com